Thursday, August 28, 2008

Another copycat

Half of the blogs I read already posted this so I'm just another copycat.

Place an X by all the things you've done and remove the X from the ones you have not. Answer the 30 questions at the end and send it to yourfriends (including me). This is for your entire life!

( ) Gone on a blind date
(X) Skipped school
( ) Watched someone die
(X) Been to Canada
( ) Been to Mexico
(X) Been to Florida
(X) Been on a plane
(X) Been lost
(X) Been on the opposite side of the country (the Netherlands isn't that big)
(X) Gone to your country Capital
(X) Swam in the ocean
(X) Cried yourself to sleep
(X) Played cops and robbers
(X) Recently colored with crayon
(X) Sang Karaoke
(X) Paid for a meal with coins only?
(X) Done something you told yourself you wouldn't?
( ) Made prank phone calls
(X) Laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose
(X) Caught a snowflake on your tongue
(X) Danced in the rain
(X) Written a letter to Santa Claus (it's actually St. Nicholas for us)
( ) Been kissed under the mistletoe
(X) Watched the sunrise with someone you care about
(X) Blown bubbles(X) Gone ice-skating
(X)Been skinny dipping outdoors
(X) Gone to the movies

1. Any nickname? Nic, penguin
2. Mother's name? Rose
3. Favorite drink? Tea with a fruit flavour
4.Tattoo's? none
5. Body piercings? only the ears
6. How much do you love your job? I'm officially out of a job
7. Not there
8. Favorite vacation spot? I just love Disney World and Sea World
9. Ever been to Africa? Not yet
10. Ever eaten cookies for dinner? Probably once or twice
11. Been on TV? In the audience
12. Ever steal a traffic sign? No!
13. Ever been in a car accident? Sadly, yes. I still have neck troubles and it's been over 4 years.
14. Drive a 2-door or 4-door vehicle? Yup
15. Favorite salad dressing? Vinegraitte
16. Favorite Pie? Does devil's food cake count?
17. Favorite cake? Or does it belong here?
18. Favorite movie? Don't really have one.
19. Favorite holiday? When I go abroad (vacation).
20. Favorite dessert? Chocolate chocolate ice cream
21. Favorite food? Chicken
22. Favorite day of the week? Friday
23. Favorite brand of body wash? The ones without specific scents
24. Favorite toothpaste? Aquafresh
25. Favorite smell? Jennifer Lopez, Live deluxe (the just Live, doesn't smell goed)
26. What do you do to relax? Be completely busy, I hate doing nothing
27. How do you see yourself in 10 years? Out of school (just another 2 years), having kids and hopefully their dad as well.
28. How many siblings do you have? 1 younger brother
29. Furthest place you will send this message? Don't know who still reads my blog but everyone that does is probably on the other side of the Atlantic.
30. Who will respond to this the fastest? Half of my bloglist already filled it out so I have no clue.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Wednesday Weirdness

I'm trying to get back in the normal routine (preparing for school and stuff). So I'm gonna start by playing Wednesday Weirdness. Here it goes:

1. How often do you talk to your siblings?
Me and my sibling both live at home. So almost everyday.

2. How well do you deal when given an ultimatum?
Depends on what the ultimatum is. And what happens when I don't "reach" it. But most of the time an ultimatum rubs me the wrong way, and before person has finished the ultimatum, he/she is out the door.

3. Have you ever dated someone or had a lover who had an emotional or mental disorder?
I don't know. My last boyfriend had a shrink because he has a social disorder. I figured that out after we started dating. He did talk in the beginning.
He explained that he avoided confrontation because he couldn't handle fights. Well...he fougth a lot with the girlfriend before me. He fights even more with the girl he's currently dating. And we never fougth. :S Hmmm...weird right.

4. How do you feel about crossdressing?
As long as it's not my future husband, I'm okay. Do whatever you like people!

5. Have you ever lied about the number of sexual partners you have had to someone? Why?
No, why should I? But I do try to avoid the question.

6. Does your significant other have the same political and religious views that you do? How often do you discuss politics and religion with them?
I currently don't have a significant other. But 3x probably has different views on politics. I'm social, he's too but he wants to be very rich (retire when he's 35, yup dream big), so I guess he would be more conservative. We would/could discuss it but it wouldn't be a problem. But religion won't come up.

7. What sport, if any, do you find to be most boring?
All sports are boring if you are watching alone. I'm not a sports fan of any kind. But I don't mind watching it.
Although I can watch figure skating for hours, I just find it fascinating.

8. Have you ever honestly peed in the pool?
I have never peed in the pool. I have peed in sea.

Happy Wednesday!

Monday, August 25, 2008

I'm back

Hey girls!

I'm back from my holiday and I'm totally relaxed. We didn't do anything at all (excursions were way to expensive), the only thing that I had to do was drag my ass to the poolside and eat. That's life :D.

Only one week left of my summer break before school starts, well...that's what I think. I called school last Friday because I hadn't heard from them since June (and then only to pay tutition), and they couldn't really tell me anything other then I think there will be more known after Wednesday. You gotta love school :S.

Normally we have 6 or 7 weeks off. With me only having one resit and not even having studied for that one, I had 10 weeks off. How relaxing.

When I have gathered all the holiday pics I will post some. Bulgaria was nice, but more like a been there done that. So you won't catch me there again.


Friday, August 08, 2008


Yes! My last day of work has come and gone. I'm unemployed, jeeej. Monday I can step on that plane, know that everything is taken care of and that if something's wrong, it's not my problem.

*deep sigh* what a relieve.

So I can finally sit back and start to prepare for my holiday. JEEEJ! :D. Oj I still have to do so many things, haven't done the shopping yet.

So...if I don't post here before Monday (I probably don't have the time). I'll see you guys in 2 weeks :D.

Bulgaria here I come!!

Wednesday, August 06, 2008


Wednesday Weirdness post below.

We all have expectations. Even if we're not supposed to have them.
I wasn't planning on having expectations when I started this something with 3x. But we were texting a lot everyday and now he just stopped or sends one every other day. And that just bugs me. I don't know if he's just busy or doesn't have something to tell (he doesn't text me back when I ask him how he's doing or what he's doing). So does this mean it's over?

He did make a remark on Friday when I told him that I wouldn't see him before my holiday and he was like "of course we see each other". So can I expect a text message on Friday saying What time can I pick you up? like last Friday?

Maybe he's just playing a game because he knows that this would bug me.

But if it would be over, wouldn't he just tell me? He wants us to stay friends, that was one of the things I had to promise before this started (I told him that if he cheated on me and that he wouldn't tell me himself, but I would find out later, that I wasn't so sure because I hate lying). He knows that he just has to be honest.

So I hope that with writing this post my frustration is on paper and I can let it go.

No expectations!

Wednesday Weirdness

I'm game. Are you?

Wednesday Weirdness, The Ex Files

1. When your relationships end, are you the instigator of the breakup or the recipient?
I'm the instigator. I'm just done with being in a relationship and tied down after a while.

2. Do you save things from your ex, or get rid of them? If you save them, how? If you trash them, how?
I don't really have things from ex-boyfriends. We do fun stuff. And I hate begin on pictures so we're never together on pictures. And most of the time I don't put him on the pictures either.

3. Describe your favorite ex?
During our few week relationship 3x is my fave ex. But not being in a relationship with him makes him the worst (explanation in Q6). He's so sweet and the real gentlement (he sort of always is).

4. Do you consider a friend's ex off limits?
Officially, yes. But in the past me and my bff have exchanged ex-bf's.

5. Have you ever had sex with an ex? Why?
Shocking but yes. We were im-ing and we discovered that we didn't know what the other liked in bed during our relationship. And we just wanted to try if the sex was good if we knew what the other liked. He thought it was great. I was still bored :s.

6. If you had a choice between spending the rest of your life with your worst ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend, or your HS Nemisis, who would you choose?
It differs. The worst ex-boyfriend during the relationship or just the worst guy who has been your ex-boyfriend? Because I would gladly trade my worst ex-boyfriend during the relationship with my HS Nemisis, it would only take me a week longer to kill him. It it's the worst guy, then it's 3x. Just because he can annoy me in ways I couldn't handle (I can handle them better now), and he cheated on his girlfriends. And he lies a lot (but not to me 'cause I can read him, just like he can read me). So I would prefer 3x to my HS Nemisis. And I know that after annoying days there's sunshine because we can get along so well. (wow long answer, and I don't think it makes a lot of sense to others than me.)

7. Would you ever create a YouTube video or a website celebrating your exes' flaws?
No. You just don't do such a thing.

Happy Wednesday!

Sunday, August 03, 2008

another weekend

How was everyone's weekend?

I went to the woods on Friday evening with 3x a charm. It's strange how we match. I've been around him for the last few weekends. Last week we both had to work and nothing "exciting" had happened but still we could talk for hours in the woods. And when I get worked up or start talking even faster than usual, he gets calmer, and that makes me calm down.

But I'm realistic. I know him now for almost 10 years, and I know him pretty well (we can read each other rather easy). So I'm trying not to get my heart in.

He will go out with buddies from his old school/dorm next week. And then Monday I'm going on my vacation. So probably coming Friday will be our last date as ....euhm.....well what we are for the last weeks. Because I don't know if I'm able to trust him not to kiss other girls. And I don't want to go to Bulgaria, not have a holiday fling (not that I will, but I want to have the opportunity) and then come home to find out that he'd other girls while I was away.
He will probably tell me that I can trust him, but his past speaks differently. We'll just wait til Friday.

Yesterday we (me and some friends) went to see the Dark Knight. It was good! But I'm not sure if it's that good that it deserves the no. 1 position on the top 250 of
But if you want to go and see a movie, this is definitely a must see.

So that was my weekend. Please tell me about yours!