Men! What's wrong with them?
So I was supposed to have a date with my date last Thursday, he texts me the night before that we're still on. Then he texts me during the day that he has to go to Glasgow to pick some stuff up and if we can reschedule to the weekend. Fine!!
So on Friday I'm out with a friend and he calls me. He says he's going to Base (club) and if I want to join. Since I'm standing opposite of Base I'm looking where the hell he is because he said he was almost there. So I join him. And he's sweet and all. My friend had to work the next day so he has to leave. At the end of the night, we pass my house so I can pick some stuff up before heading over to his (mine is in town, his is out of town, 40 min on bus that's stopping every few seconds). Somewhere along the road he informs me that he has to work tomorrow morning. It's already 3am. By the time we're at his place it's 4. And of course before sleeping we make out, so I think it's about 5.30 before we go to sleep. His alarm was set at 7. Not funny, I was wide awake, him not so much. In the end he didn't get up until 8.30. I tried to wake him but gave up after a few tries since he had to work and not me, not my responsibility.
So when we say goodbye, I got his Sunday and he says he will call me as soon as work is over. That's at 1pm. So thinking that he would actually call, I had my phone near me from 1. I never heard anything from him until 10.30pm. And since I was getting pretty angry (I'm not demanding or anything but a text or call when you say you're calling would be nice) I left my phone in another room so I wouldn't stare at it, wanting it to ring. He calls me again at 1.30am saying that he tried to call me to go with him but since i was already in bed he would leave me alone and call me when he would wake up Sunday, probably around 2.
So Sunday comes and almost goes before I get a call. Me being the girl I am, was already getting paranoid, like he doesn't like me at all. But when we're together he's so amazing but when we're not it's more like out of sight out of mind. So frustrating. So I text him that I guess he's just not that into me and I can't believe he doesn't have the balls to say so. He gets back to me in the evening that he never got home until 1pm (he went to friends after the club) and that he just woke up, he needed to go to his moms bbq but he wasn't feeling well at all. Well...after so much partying I don't think many people would have survived. So I never got to see him Sunday.
We did have a text fight, saying that he was being an ass, and he actually admitting that he's a nightmare and that he lets friends down but doesn't mean it and he really likes me. I told him that he had to put a bit more effort in this, since I'm not able to do it on my own. And he told me he would. But of course he hasn't.
He texted me on Tuesday to say that he was so so sorry (yup double so, so I'm not sure if he's really sorry if it's just another excuse) but he had to work overtime so he wasn't able to make it tonight (he already had to work till 8), but he would make it up during the weekend.
I'm getting good at saying fine so I texted him Fine! Friday? dinner and a movie since you have to work Saturday. I get back (within a few hours, wow that's a first, except when i'm sending angry texts and him apologising) that he's free on Thursday and Friday evening was available too. He knows I have to work fulltime and I don't have any days off so why on earth would he think that I would be free on Thursday? I told him Friday was fine (i can do it without the ! :)). That was this morning. I do have a feeling that something (read: he) will screw it up again. And that will be the end.
I can't believe that I'm already giving him another chance. Normally I would have been long gone. But he really is amazing when we're together. He so likes me more than I like him. But at least I've given up on texting. I text one back and if I have a question I'll text again. Normally I would text just ask how his day has been, but since he's not able to answer those, i'm not able to send them anymore. It's his turn to try. Then I'll think about it. Because if I don't see him this weekend (it's definitely over), I won't be able to see him for another 2 weeks because my mother and aunt/dad are here and then it's only another 6 weeks for me in Scotland. And if he behaves I'm willing to see what I can do with my parents so I can fit him in for an evening, but only if he deserves it.
Sorry about that rant.
Okay back to business.
Wednesday Weirdness (please click on it if you want to play too)
The questions are weirder than normal, and normally they're already pretty weird.
1.) If you had to either shop for your groceries in your underwear only (bra&panties or boxers/briefs/whatever) or run streaking through the mall totally naked for no less than 4 minutes, which will you pick?
The shopping in my underwear, it's not like I'm showing more than I do at the pool/beach in my bikini.
2.) You're having dinner at the inlaws (your boyfriend/girlfriend's parents if not married) and the food is so awful you would rather eat the table cloth. Your mother in law (bf/gf mother) calls you out and asks if there is anything wrong with the food. You can't say you're "just not that hungry" because you had earlier claimed to be "starving" so now, how do you respond to her?
I would say that my stomach is a bit upset because of the monthly problems (as not to freak out the men at the table) and that I don't want to eat too much to upset it some more.
3.) In the middle of foreplay, your partner asks if you want to try something new. You ask what it is. They want to stick some kind of frozen fruit or vegetable up your anus. How open to trying this are you?
I'm all for trying new things, but there's nothing going up my anus. And fruit can be used during sex but not by sticking it up any holes.
4.) Would you rather have to walk 30 feet over burning hot coals or walk 70 feet over broken shards of glass? Why?
Don't think neither is an option. I think I'd go for the 70 feet, you can please your feet carefully as not to hurt them (or to hurt them less).
5.) Would you rather have to have sex with your partner with a room full of your former highschool classmates watching or have sex with your partener in a room full with a mix of each of your former exes watching?
What's up with these questions this week?
I'd go for the former exes. At least they can give you hints and tips.
Although I would be completely freaked out if the exes would consist of highschool classmates.